Love Your Enemy

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

I am a very strict, intense, demanding person and have very high-expectations on everything and zero tolerate to stupidity. Relax, I mainly apply the above values to myself; you are safe. But sometimes to others too, especially those I care a lot.

Surprise? Don't be :p

No matter how hard you work, there's always a room for improvement; heard this from my dad when I was a kid. Most of the time I set the expectations too high, judge too hard on insignificant matters and play too many assumption within myself.

This makes others feel that I'm hard to reach, or sometimes hard to please (speaking on Chean's behalf although he never complain :p).

But I'm learning. Trying to take things easy and to be more tolerate. Trying to love those who hates me and those who I don't like. Trying to love those who disappointed me and let me down me before.

I love you all, my dear friends and enemies (I'm trying very hard ok, please feel my genuine sincerity ^^).

It's ok if you don't love me back. At least love my cutie puppy Miyaki, k?

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Turned him into a homeless Robin Hood! Haha :p The bigger and new bed was his 09 X'mas present.

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Sleeping like a baby...

Gonna "kacau" (disturb in Malay) him a bit...

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Wake up, baby...

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Sleepy Miyaki. I love to watch him sleep! He always keeps himself warm by hiding his paws underneath his body. Super cute ❤❤

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Hey, baby! Get some self-respect!!!

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Ohh... Kena bomb kah? (Hit by a bomb?)

The beauty of having a doggie is that he/she always think they are still a baby no matter how big they grow. They never realized they will grow up one day, at least not my Miyaki.

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See, he still acts like a 9 weeks old baby although he's going to be one this month...

** Core thoughts **
Sometimes the biggest enemy is ourselves. Try to find some time to love yourself more everyday. Thus, you'll be able to love others too (was talking to myself).

21 comments :

Somewhere in Singapore said...

Muaks muaks to Miyaki!!! I loves Miyaki!!!

YT said...

Somehow I am your opposite.

Living my the idiom Carpe Diem, I seek to maximize this moment and thinking less of next.

Maybe that is why I am never a high achiever *shame*

Vincent Cho said...

i'm glad i know how to love. so do u ^^

Feeling said...

Miyaki is just too cute! We sure love him like how we love you hehe =)

Anyway, like your this posting..firstly the point of love our frens and enermy..second, the high expectation to ourselves lolz..love the quote from your dad too! Muacks!

Gurly said...

omg!!!
Miyaki sleep just like my Mac!
Super cute! I love to see Mac sleeping and disturb him most of the time =P

Yivon said...

Agree with you bev...love my enemy...hahaha...i'm learning too...gambateh together ya...and i like miyaki's sleeping pose...super cute^^

Jean said...

Your dog is so cute!! love the fur and color..

Kendra Bing said...

If u hv 100 acquaintance, u r considered very successful if u can make 5 of them to b happy with u. Hardly at any point of our life that we could b able to please everyone with our actions.

At least that is what we can think of from the point of view of the person you don't like (or enemy). It's not easy to be a likeable person. Walk in their shoes, and we may understand their reason of all their actions, before criticizing them or making them our enemy. That way, we r less hasty in disliking other people.

P/S: Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, if he gets angry, he'll be a mile away - and barefoot.

Akira 思胜 said...

Haha, Miyaki can sleep until like that? lolx!

Candlelyn said...

your miyaki is sooooooo cute lah~want to cubit her~~

Prettywebstore said...

thanks for your ** Core thoughts **
it meant a lot to me. :)

JM said...

wow, Miyaki grows so faster, so big size already.Hehe. Your Miyaki really 幸福.

ƒörèvër HL said...

i dont have enemy....because i love everyone around me..hehe
your dog is very cute la...^^


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JiaNi said...

i will trying to love myself more everyday :)

Anonymous said...

well, it's true..We won't able to please everyone! Coz there is no one size fits all ^^ But be thankful and happy always ^^Joy

Le-1502 said...

such a long time i never been here,bz for my tee bsnes n my company job....Ot makes me crazy~~~

Love ur enemy remind me a song,lost then found by Leona Lewis. Maybe love ur enemy,it's not a bad things,when u love them, u will found ur life bcum more easyXD

Carrie_Nice9 said...

Miyaki is super cute...
The pic " Ohh... Kena bomb kah?" is very funny...Hahahahhah

small-ugly said...

"so the more you're cursing me, the more you're blessing me,love your enemies,the word said it: do good to those who curse you, pray for those who mistreated you." from I wish you well

I like this part when one of my fav singer sing this in her CD so i do not put so much of animosity on people.lol!~^^

Petite Lass said...

Very true indeed. Spread love around! :)

f!fifiona said...

nice bracelet~!!
it's gd tat u try to love everyone including urself..
miyaki is sooooo cute~~
i cant hug my dog anymore..she is soooo heavy!!

Jessyca said...

My Coco is a Y2K dog, turning into 10yr old by this year. And she still act like a pampered kid, just that she no longer chase after every little living creature like flies, birds, insects..

I really hope that she can live long healthily.